FROM INTOLERANCE TO LOVE – AND FREEDOM

 

by

Vaughn E. James, JD, DD, Ph.D.

Professor of Law

Texas Tech University School of Law

Lubbock, TX  79423

United States of America

 

 

Thank you, Mr. Chairman.  I thank you for having me here in Cape Town, South Africa, today. 

Back at Texas Tech University School of Law in Lubbock, Texas, United States of America, I teach a course titled “Law and Religion.”  On the first day of each semester, I warn my students as follows: this course is not a catechism class; it is not a course in Christian values; it is not a course in Islamic values, or Jewish values, or Hindu values.  In fact, it is not a course about values at all!  Rather, it is a course designed to enable students to litigate religious conflicts under the Constitution and laws of the United States of America, and, above all, to lead them to eradicate intolerance amongst themselves and in their dealings with others.

Intolerance.  A bad word.  Webster’s defines it as the “Lack of tolerance, especially of others’ opinions, beliefs, etc.[; or] bigotry.”[1]  Roget’s provides the following synonyms: obstinacy; narrow-mindedness.[2]  These definitions suggest that the opposite of intolerance is “tolerance,” and that to demonstrate a lack of religious intolerance all one has to do is tolerate the existence of people of other faiths and religious persuasions.  I beg to differ.  After all, “tolerance” is not necessarily something good.  Let me share a personal example:

On January 3 this year, my doctors subjected me to an MRI and determined that I had two tumors somewhere in my head.  Two days later, on January 5, they did surgery and removed those offensive tumors.  On January 12th, they subjected me to a nerve conduction test.  That was one of the most painful experiences of my life.  For two long hours I sat in a chair while the technician administered shocks all over my body.  In response to these shocks, my limbs shot up in the air like they had minds of their own.  The pain was excruciating!  I gritted my teeth as I awaited each new shock.  I sweated although it was a cold January day.  I almost broke into tears.  But having been told the test was good for me, I tolerated it.  Painful, nerve-wracking, sweat-producing; but I tolerated it.  And at the end of the two-hour session, I told myself that I would never willingly undergo another nerve conduction test.  I had tolerated enough! 

 

My experience back in January informs me on the true meaning of tolerance: gritting our teeth, grinning and bearing something because it may be for our own good.  In the religious context, I would tolerate the Muslims by acknowledging they exist but have no desire or willingness to interact with them; I would tolerate the Catholics by acknowledging their presence but would avoid them at all costs; I would tolerate the Jews by acknowledging their existence but never even speak to one; and the list goes on.  But, all things considered, this “tolerance” is as bad as “intolerance.”  We need a better way!  And that is why, in my Law and Religion class back at Texas Tech University, I teach my students this simple truth: the opposite of intolerance is not tolerance, but love, a love that leads to freedom, a freedom that transforms a narrow-minded, hate-speech-filled adherent of one faith into a compassionate human being bubbling over with love for his or her fellow human beings regardless of their religious affiliation. 

But what, we wonder, is that thing called love?  I ask, “What is love?”  And I hear Paul of Tarsus saying in the original Greek manuscript, “Love patiently endures all things – be they trials, tribulations, humiliation or mere differences,[3] that it is not easily provoked;[4] it bears all things – that is, it makes allowances for shortcomings and misunderstandings.[5] 

“What is love?”  And the Holy Qur’an points out:

Righteousness does not consist in whether you face towards the east or west.  The righteous man is he … who for the love of Allah gives his wealth to his kinfolk, to the orphans, to the needy, to the wayfarers and to the beggars, and for the redemption of captives ….  Such are the true believers[;] such are God-fearing.[6]

 

“What is Love?”  And Bahá’u’lláh puts the question in the context of religious freedom and says: “Consort with the followers of all religions in a spirit of friendliness and fellowship.”[7] 

“What is Love?”  And I see the South African experience; I see South Africans building what Jesse Jackson calls a Rainbow Coalition to bring their country out of a dark past.  I see South Africans forming a Truth and Reconciliation Commission to deal with the violence and human rights abuses that occurred in the country’s past and, that this country could move forward, granting amnesty to people who had committed heinous crimes in the past.

“What is love?”  And I hear Bob Marley, the greatest Rastafarian to have ever walked the face of the Earth, expressing the sentiment in song:

One love!  One heart!

Let’s get together and feel alright![8]

 

 “What is love?”  And I hear Jesus the Christ saying: “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.”[9] 

These definitions of love indicate that love is not the same as tolerance.  Indeed, in the context of religious liberty, love is the exact opposite of both intolerance and tolerance.  Love appreciates differences in belief.  Love appreciates differences in modes of worship.  Love appreciates differences in methods of religious practice.  Love appreciates all these differences, and does not allow them to cause division and strife.  And finally, love actively seeks out those who are different and embraces them.  Love, then, is something to be desired.

But how, we wonder, do we demonstrate this love?  After all, it is easy to speak of love, easy to claim to love, but how do we show that love?  There are many ways, I am sure, but today in Cape Town I make this claim: a good way to start the “love process” would be to engage each other in constructive dialogue. 

A few months ago, I was a panelist at a Religious Liberty Symposium in Austin, Texas.  As the panel – and the symposium – drew to a close, the moderator called upon the panelists to deliver our closing remarks.  One of the panelists delivered what I consider to be one of the best closing remarks I’ve heard in a long time.  Speaking with much passion, he called for a return to civility in our dialogue on religion, religious practice, and religious freedom.  He called for people of faith to understand each other, to work together, and to soften the harsh words we use when referring to one another or when speaking to each other. 

I couldn’t agree more.  Planet Earth has seen too many wars fought in the name of religion.  Today, the anti-Islamic feeling in many countries has gotten out of control.  By the same token, religious discrimination and suppression is far too rampant.  And unfortunately, while world leaders focus on other seemingly more important injustices, those who suffer because of their faith find no solace anywhere.  With this in mind, the widespread adoption of the recommendations put forth in Austin by my fellow panelist would go a long way to fostering love among peoples of different faiths.  These recommendations would result in the breeding of people who love each other; who patiently endure each other’s differences; who listen to each other.  These people would not always agree, but they would respect each other.  They would not engage in name-calling or the use of hate-speech.  What a world this would be; what a world of love!

And here is the beauty of it all: if we adopt this loving attitude, we shall march toward freedom.  After all, the greatest prison we create is the prison of our own minds.  I once heard this story, shared with me by my friend and mentor, Pastor Jansen Trotman of the great Inter-American Division of Seventh-day Adventists:

Late one night, a man determined that he needed some flour to prepare some bread for his children.  He considered going over to his neighbor to ask for some flour.  He got ready to leave the house, but then began to think: “If I go to my neighbor at this hour and ask for some flour, what will he say?”

 

“Well,” the man told himself, “my neighbor will no doubt be angry and will chastise me for showing up at his door at this late hour asking for some flour.”

 

Accordingly, the man did not go over to the neighbor’s house.   Meanwhile, his children got hungrier and hungrier.  He had the same debate within himself, and again determined that he would not go seek the neighbor’s assistance.  As before, the children got hungrier and hungrier. 

 

After having his internal debate several more times, the man finally decided to go seek his neighbor’s assistance.  Convinced that the neighbor would be angry and would chastise him and most likely not give him the flour, the man walked up to the neighbor’s front door, pounded on it and shouted in a hostile tone: “Come on!  Come on!  Open up and give me some flour that I may bake some bread for my children.”

 

 You see, the man was so convinced that his neighbor would be unkind that he took pre-emptive action and was the first to show actual unkindness.  The same thing applies in the realm of religious freedom.  If you believe that all Muslims are terrorists, when you interact with them you will behave like terrorists yourselves.  If you believe all Jehovah’s Witnesses are misguided, when you interact with them, you will yourself behave in a misguided manner.  If you believe that all Seventh-day Adventists are crazy, when you interact with them you will yourself behave as a crazy person would.  I could continue with the list, but I am certain you understand what I am saying.  Because of our preconceived notions – brought on by our intolerance – we lose the freedom to interact lovingly with our fellow human beings.

I say to you today in Cape Town, South Africa, that it is high time we cease and desist from this practice!  It is high time that we learn to love!  It is high time that we take time to know each other, take time to work together, take time to appreciate each other and the differences we bring to life on Planet Earth.  It is when, and only when, we do this, that we shall be able to stand together and chant in the words of the late African-American freedom fighter, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., “Free at last!  Free at last!  Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

God bless you, Cape Town!  God bless you, Africa!  God bless you, one and all!  Let’s continue the fight for Religious Freedom for all!                



[1]  Webster’s New World College Dictionary, 3d. ed. (Cleveland: Simon & Schuster, 1997).

[2]  Roget’s International Thesaurus, 5th ed. (New York: HarperCollins Publishers, Inc., 1992).

[3]  I Cor. 13:7 (New International Version).

[4]  I Cor. 13:5 (New International Version).

[5]  I Cor. 13:7 (New International Version).

[6]  The Koran, a Translation by N.J. Darwood (Middx: Penguin Books, 1968), p. 350.

[7]  Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh (Haifa: Bahá’i World Centre, 1982), p. 92.

[8]  Bob Marley, One Love/People Get Ready, 1977.

[9]  John 15:13 (New International Version).